Affirming therapy for LGBTQIA+ and neurodivergent adults in CA, NM, and WA

All of you is welcome here

Welcome, I am so glad you are here!

I'm a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in California, Washington, and New Mexico, an AAMFT Clinical Fellow, and a PhD candidate in Couple and Family Therapy.

I identify as queer and neurodivergent, and I bring both lived experience and clinical expertise to my work with LGBTQIA+ and neurodivergent individuals, partners, and families.

My approach draws from AEDP, IFS, and EFT, and is rooted in compassion, curiosity, and a deep belief that healing happens in connection. I don't pathologize who you are. I get curious about it.

Outside the therapy room you'll probably find me with one of my four dogs.

My View of Therapy

Therapy isn't about fixing what's broken. It's about reconnecting with what's already whole.

This is a space to slow down, get curious, and understand the parts of you shaped by survival, identity, relationships, and lived experience. I don't believe in pathologizing who you are. Instead I see therapy as an opportunity to explore your inner world with compassion, make sense of the deeper stories guiding your life, and move toward greater self-understanding, healing, and connection.

Healing isn't linear. It's not always comfortable. But with the right support, it can be genuinely transformative.

You're allowed to take up space here. At your own pace. In your own way.

Ways We Can Work Together

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Individual Therapy

For young adults, adults, and older adults. A space to slow down, get curious, and explore what's showing up in your life with someone genuinely in your corner.

 $185 per 50-minute session
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Dyadic Therapy

For partners, couples, parent/child, siblings, and friends. A space for two people to show up honestly, slow down the patterns that keep getting in the way, and reconnect with what matters.

$225 per 50-minute session
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$225 per 50-minute session

Triadic+ Therapy

For triads, families, and polyamory pods. Therapy that makes room for more. All relationship configurations and family systems welcome.

Ready to get started?

The first step is a free 15-minute consultation. It's low pressure, no commitment, and a chance for us to see if we're a good fit.

Land Acknowledgement

I acknowledge with respect that I live and work on the traditional, ancestral, and unceded territory of the Pechanga Band of Luiseño Indians, also known as the Payómkawichum. The Pechanga people have stewarded this land since time immemorial, and I honor their enduring connection to it.

I recognize the ongoing presence and contributions of the Pechanga people and express my commitment to understanding and respecting their history, culture, and sovereignty. May we strive for collaboration, understanding, and the promotion of justice in all our interactions on this sacred land.

Let’s Connect

Whether you're ready to get started or just have questions, I'd love to hear from you. Reach out and I'll get back to you within one business day.

You can also email me directly at info@therapywithjenniferpatterson.com